My Girlfriend won't sleep with me. Should i Dump her?

My girlfriend is an official member of a leading Pentecostal church and she takes her religion seriously – so much so that she always recoils at the idea of having sex. She says it’s against the teachings of the Bible. This makes me sad. I am a Christian myself and I go to a reputable orthodox church. My girlfriend’s attitude is really upsetting me.

I know a lot of our religious friends who are happy in fulfilling sexual relationships, why should our situation be different? At times I even wonder if she’s not hiding something more sinister from me. I’ve asked her to reach some sort of compromise by giving me oral sex .

But she says nothing can be done sexually until we are married. It seems as if she is using her religion as a bait for us to get married. What can I do? What if she turns out to be a pig-in-a-poke after we get married? Do you think there’s anything I can say to change her views? I want her so much.

Dear readers , a brothers needs help so please leave a comment below.

‘Gerrara Here’ Video Has Brought Me Money And Fame - Francis Odega

Francis Odega recently opened up that the viral “Gerara Here” video has brought him money and fame after it was uploaded by a friend on Instagram.Speaking in an exclusive interview with the Punch, he said, “I am pleasantly surprised that just one scene from a movie, which I starred in three years ago, has suddenly brought me so much attention and fame.”

The three-part movie, titled Welcome to South, Back from South and Agony of South was shot in South Africa and Nigeria and starred Francis Odega alongside Imeh Bishop and Dede One Day.

Francis Odega

“I don’t really know why it has taken the movie three years to garner this sort of recognition. I joined Instagram two months ago, after some social media-savvy friends of mine played the Gerara Here video, which was posted on Instagram for me. The number of comments that trailed the post blew me away and I decided to join the platform almost immediately. Within a month, I had 3000 followers and currently have 18,600 fans,” the actor said in respect to the sudden popularity of the video.”

That the video went viral was just a huge part of a cake till American rapper 50 Cent put the icing when he re-posted the video on his Instagram page.

According to Odega, “It was an indescribable feeling and I also felt honoured when he began following me on Instagram. Snoop Dogg also followed suit shortly after. Both artistes are obviously huge fans of mine. Don Jazzy, PSquare, Patoranking, M.I, Sound Sultan and many other Nigerian music stars also follow me on social media.”

The actor who had his debut role in 1996 also added that the instant fame the video has brought him has also translated into more money and jobs for him.

“…Etisalat recently made me its ambassador because of the attention I have been receiving. I recently had a photoshoot for the billboards and will shoot the television commercial for the brand very soon. The concept of the billboard adverts revolves around the ‘Gerara Here’ concept,” he said.

He also spoke on the support from his family, the love from his fans and the fact that God,Nkem Owoh and the late Sam Loco have inspired him greatly in a career that spans two decades.

lesson learnt. Keep doing your thing and never give up. 

8 Reasons Why Young Cameroonian Guys Impregnate Girls randomly.

1. “I Pull Out Before I Shoot Out’

Oshey, Lord Withdrawal! Didn’t they tell you that your pre-cum has enough sperm from your last
self-service session to father a child? Oh okay, you pee in- between sessions. Nice move. But you can’t
honestly tell me that there weren’t a few slip-ups in all your pull out encounters. You and I know that
the sweetest part is when you offload all your goods in the right warehouse. So stop applauding
yourself for staining the sheets. And just a little reminder, someone in the bible days died because
of this type of thing.

2. ‘It’s The Woman’s Responsibility To Handle Contraception’

This is how so many clueless men have been lied to. She tells you she’s on the pill or that she’ll pop
some after and you believe and go in without protection. This same babe will come back a month
later and tell you the pill(s) didn’t work. Dude, never believe any of that nonsense a woman says before
Sex. Always have yourself locked and loaded.

That reaction on face when he gets the news

3. ‘I Tear Open The Condom Package With My Teeth’

It’s good to get the mouth, and sometimes even the teeth involved during Sex but please, use your
fingers to tear open the condom package. Why? To avoid poking a hole into the condom, silly. The
only hole you should be poking should be… never mind. The wise ones understand what I’m talking
about.

4. Putting On Or Taking Off The Condom During Sex

Okay, seriously I don’t get this part. You start having
Sex then halfway, for whatever reason, you say
‘oops! sorry, I forgot to use a condom’ and then you
put one on. Have you heard of pre-cum? Obviously
not. Google it. Then for those of you who decide
‘this condom thing is killing my vibe’ and decide to
remove it halfway, please go for quality stuff next
time or learn how to wear on a condom correctly or
just get married and stay faithful "Ngoronbib'.

5. ‘We Had Sex During Her Period’ First of all…eww!

Second, don’t deceive yourself. Women have and can get pregnant during their
periods. Some medical practitioners will not agree to this but others will. It has been found that some
women ovulate when they are menstruating, so next time while dipping into the Red Sea, be sure
to use a life jacket. If you go releasing your little swimmers with no protection, one of them is bound to swim upstream and catch something you’re not prepared for.

6. I’ve Had The Condom For Three Years
My dear brother,

I know it’s a quality brand product and probably cost you a few hundred
frs  and you’re saving it for prime V, or just may be you haven’t been laid in a long time; but it’s no reason for you to leave it in your wallet until it either expires or becomes useless. Use it when it’s still good or throw it away.
7. ‘I Like My Condom Tight’

And so you push your p*n*s all in to fill the condom tip. Bros, unless your p*n*s is shaped
exactly like a condom, please desist from tightening things in there. You have to leave that space for the spill. If you don’t, the condom will break. I’m tempted to say it’s not ‘rocket’ science but errrrm…

8. ‘We Had Sex While Standing’

First of all, buhahahahaha! For real? So, let me understand the logic. You did it while standing and
all of the Fluid spilled to the floor and none was left in her. Hmmm… In physics, following the law
of gravity, it makes sense. But not in biology, which may have a law somewhere that states ‘what
goes in, stays in’. You should know that the v*g’i’na is one place that may not have a door but has a
way of keeping things in. Be Warned!

Basically, just don’t be silly during Sex. Protect yourself and your woman. Use a condom.

Mimi's Diary : My First Time - A Spectacular Night

                                                               

Sex = Female
Where it happened = Boyfriends parents house

My first time wasn't unexspected at all he wanted it as much as I did! My boyfriends parents had gone out if town for the weekend which ment Jason (my bf) was going to be home alone for the 3 days his parents were away. I remember begging my mom to stay at my bestfriend house for the weeknd when really I was planning on staying with jay. That Saturday night me and Jason was sat In his parents "love shack" watching a movie. Suddenly I felt jays hand slide inbetween my inner thigh and slowly started to caress inbetween me leading up to my pussy. 

Disgrace!! See Full Photos Of What Happened During Dangote's Inauguration In Cameroon

The floods that ruined the inauguration of Alhadji Aliko Dangote who happens to be Africa's richest man is sickening. The ceremony which was organised to inaugurate Dangote's Cement Factory in Douala, had Cameroon's Prime minister Mr. Philemon Yang , Dangote himself and other dignitaries in attendance. The flood further exposes the incapability of Mr. Biya's government.

 

While many have questioned the organizers choice of location , this writer thinks the choice actually backfired on the present "royal" government in place.

In another development, the presidency just released the sum of 2 million frs ( I am not sure if it's 2 million or 2 billion as there are conflicting reports) for maintenance of the Douala-Bafousam –Bamenda road. see photos of Dangote's shameful inauguration below.

Best outfit for ladies with small waist

Fashion today have boosted the confidence of ladies to show off your assets then go right ahead.

The only problem is most ladies with small waist, big butties and thighs find it really hard to dress appropriately.

Joselyn Dumas

Their extra-ordinary voluptuous asset makes it seem that way but the case is quite different because its so easy to dress a voluptuous body, the trick is to take note of that part of your body.

There are several ways a voluptuous lady you can dress and still look classy and elegant.

Below I highlight the rules that should be followed;

Focus on your upper body 

Like Joselyn Dumas pair a loose fitting blouse with a pencil skirt, the blouse would make it seem like your upper body is just as voluptuous as your lower half. This is the perfect option if you do not want to over emphasize your features.

Cameroonian 'Blogger' Roasted By Netizens.

Cameroon Obossooooo !! A Cameroonian 'blogger' cum 'celebrity' cum 'musician' cum whatever by the name Maybelle Boma was roasted today on social networking site Facebook.

What was her crime na weehhh? Well , she reportedly started the rumor that Cameroonian Footballer Clinton Njie,  who recently sealed a mouthwatering  move to Tottenham Hotspurs in the EPL is having a romantic affair with Cameroonian Actress Syndy Emade.

Syndy's  camp have since  debunked the rumors  and her PR vehemently denied the two celebs are lovebirds. 

According to our source , Maybelle who is based in the US has a a huge online presence especially on facebook and that she is just a "wannabe whatever" a blogger without a blog (yahoo boy no laptop). trust les Camerounaise!. Another facebook user went as far a labeling Maybelle an old woman (choii mama Maybelle ohhhh, who send you na) . 

Guys read her post and see the reaction that followed. this is not Fair!! 

I am outta here . Ciao

TV reporter and photographer shot and killed on live TV in Virginia

According to news reports, television journalist Alison Parker, 24, (left) and Photojournalist Adam Ward (right) with WDBJ7 TV, were shot dead by a gunman today Wednesday morning August 26th around 6.45am (local time) while reporting live on air at Bridgewater Plaza, Moneta, Virginia. 237Extra understands that  the crew was carrying out an interview when gunshots were fired. Adam was first shot dead and Alison was killed as she tried to run. Alison graduated from college in 2012. The lady they were interviewing is in critical condition in the hospital.

The gunman is at large but the cameraman captured the killer on camera as he fell after being shot as his camera was still running. The motive for the shooting is not known.

 The killer captured on the cameraman's camera

Sad!

Get lean and eat clean ! Top health tips from fitness experts.

We know right , we all have that extra calories that we so much want to burn. We all want to stay fit and healthy. so with research , we came up with this 10 possible ways to stay lean, eat clean and most importantly stay healthy. 

1. Master the basics

Learn to master some fundamental exercises. Learning how to complete these exercises with great form and technique will ensure your workout is effective.

Spend time learning some of the following exercises: Squat, Lunge, Press up, Sit up, Pull up, Dips.

2. Train with intensity

Mimi's Diary: My First Time.

Julie

Sex = Female
Where it happened = Car

Well..my first time was exciting although looking back not to very responsible on my part. I had been dating a guy for about a year and most of my friends had already lost their virginity. I decide that I was going to make it my goal to lose mine on my 16th birthday. As luck would have it about a week before my birthday my boyfriend decided he needed his freedom and broke up with me.

 I was more disappointed because I had planned on giving it up on my birthday than the breakup. My birthday fell on Saturday night so I went out to one of the local high school hangouts for the evening. As the evening went on I hooked up with a couple of guys I had known most of my life who were just friends. We began to talk about my breakup and for some reason I told them my disappointment because it was my birthday and what I had planned to do. They laughed and jokingly said they could take care of that problem. We sat around talking for a while then they suggested we go to another place that kids from school hung out. On our way they stopped at a local store where they knew a guy and bought a couple of six packs. Then instead of going to the another place we drove to a local parking spot and started drinking. After i had had a couple I got to feeling pretty good and when one of the guys wanted to kiss I was in the mood. We kissed for a while as I had another beer and then he unbuttoned my blouse and began to play with my tits. It didn't take long for me to get excited and when he ran his hand up my skirt went inside my panties and ran his finger in me I just enjoyed the feeling. It was not the first time I had gone that far so I just let him finger away. The more he work the more excited I got and the next thing I knew I told him we should get in the back seat. As soon as we were back there he began going at it again. I stopped him kicked my shoes off then took my panties off. I laid down in the seat and he dropped his jeans and got himself out. I pulled my skirt up spread my legs. I felt him against me and I pushed so he would know that I was ready. The feeling was awesome and I couldn't seem to get enough and told him to go faster. About that time he said "here comes your birthday present" and I felt him cumming and I let out a big scream of pleasure. He pulled out and I told him I didn't want to stop. With at the other guy who had been up front said he would give me more and I just said ok. The second he went in I had an enormous orgasm and them when he came i had another one. I was so drained once we finished that I was weak from all the excitement. I had not told them I was a virgin when we had talked earlier only that I was wanting to do it on my birthday. When the second guy finished he asked what kind of birth control I was on and I told them that I was a virgin and not on anything. They both freaked and asked why I had not asked them to use condoms. I had been so horny that I hadn't even given that a thought. I was very lucky that I was not fertile enough for one of them to knock me up.   Ciao, see you on the next episode

10 Things Every Man Should Know About Dating Before

Dating in your early 20s is weird. It stops being acceptable to watch a movie in your parents basement, or meet someone who is equally as drunk, loud, and just as "really pumped up about this Third Eye Blind song" as you at a frat party. You actually have to put forth effort if you want to meet new people, and putting forth effort into something that uncomfortable sucks. Here's how to date like a MAN.

1. Open doors. It never hurts to be a gentleman.

2. Flowers don't suck. They can be pretty cheesy, but no woman is going to stab you in the face for bringing her flowers. If you want to start a first date of romantically, it's never an awful idea.

3. A fun date is always better than a fancy date. White tablecloth restaurants are awkwardly formal. The kind of divey place with incredible comfort food and skeeball in the back is almost always going to make a better date. But really just put some kind of thought into planning something according to what you think she, specifically, would be into.

4. You don't need to wait three days to call. The three day rule is bullshit. Don't hammer her with texts and friend requests five minutes after meeting her, but it's OK to call her a little early if that feels natural.

5. Ask her about herself. This sounds basic, but a lot of people just yammer on about themselves when they get nervous.